Transform Your Mindset: Overcoming the Disease of Excuses
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Chapter 1: The Blame Game
It's all too common to point fingers at external factors—whether it's our upbringing, health, or circumstances. Yet, how often do we reflect on our own lack of perseverance? How frequently do we think, “If I had just woken up earlier and put in more effort, I might have achieved what I wanted”?
The truth is, we rarely engage in such self-reflection. It's easier to deflect responsibility onto others, which comforts our ego and masks our shortcomings.
> "Ego is the enemy of what you desire and what you already possess: mastery of a skill, genuine creativity, collaboration, building trust, and sustaining success." — Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
David Schwartz, in The Magic of Thinking Big, emphasizes the importance of studying people. He identifies a mental barrier known as "excusitis," which hinders many—especially those who are less successful. He notes that the more accomplished individuals tend to make fewer excuses, while those who achieve little often compile extensive lists of justifications.
> "The right mindset and one arm will consistently outperform the wrong mindset and two arms." — David J. Schwartz
Section 1.1: Common Excuses
My Health Isn’t Good
This excuse often feels valid because health issues can seem beyond our control. However, many individuals do possess the power to improve their health through lifestyle changes. If one's health is compromised, it may stem from personal choices and can often be improved with effort. Instead of focusing on ailments, cultivate gratitude for your health and adopt a lifestyle that maximizes your well-being. Embrace the principle: “It’s better to wear out than rust out.”
I’m Not Smart Enough
Intelligence alone does not guarantee success; what truly matters is how you apply your knowledge. Many intelligent individuals fail to act, while those who persist and learn from failures often achieve greater success. Remember, your attitude can significantly impact your journey. “My mindset is more crucial than my IQ. I can always improve, but only with the right outlook.”
I’m Too Old (or Too Young)
Age should not dictate your potential. Humans typically have around 50 years of productive work life, so why limit yourself based on age? A career shift at any age can lead to meaningful contributions and fulfillment. Each decade holds the potential for growth and impact.
I Attract Bad Luck
Understand that every outcome has a cause. Success is the result of deliberate actions and understanding the principles that lead to achievement. Luck does not magically create success; instead, it favors those who take initiative.
Section 1.2: Taking Action
Instead of succumbing to excuses, focus on taking decisive action. Fear is a common experience, but it should not hold you back. Acknowledge your fears and push through them.
"Action is the antidote to excuses. The more you act toward your goals, the less room there is for excuses to thrive."
Chapter 2: Embrace Life’s Adventures
In the video titled "FAILURE DISEASE BY AMB. ARC MOSES ONU AT KINGSMEN IMMERSION RETREAT 2024," the speaker delves deeper into the concept of failure and its relationship with mindset, encouraging a shift from blame to action.
Another insightful video, "What Caused My Bone Marrow Failure Disease," discusses personal experiences with health challenges, highlighting the importance of proactive approaches to life’s difficulties.
This narrative serves as a reminder that the journey toward improvement starts from within. Embrace challenges as adventures, and you will discover the strength to overcome any obstacle.