Section 1.1: The Isolation of Achievement

In the early part of this year, I published an article titled How to Get Ahead of 99% of People in 12 Months That No One Talks About. The response was overwhelming, with many seeking further guidance and coaching. While it was fulfilling to hear that my article motivated action, I felt compelled to share a cautionary tale.

Reaching a level above 99% of others inherently means you're navigating a path less traveled. This often results in:

• A lack of understanding from the majority.
• A small group anticipating your failure.
• Minimal support from those around you.

The disconnect from 'normal' people can be so profound that solitude feels more appealing. I often spend my weekends alone, not out of a desire for punishment, but because I find solace in my own company. Embracing solitude can be a crucial part of this journey.

Section 1.2: The Unending Mental Strain

A 2014 New York Times article explored the traits that characterize highly successful individuals. The study highlighted a peculiar combination of attributes:

• Superiority Complex: A strong belief in their own exceptionalism.
• Deep Insecurity: An underlying feeling of inadequacy and unworthiness.
• Impulse Control: The ability to delay gratification for future gains.

This unusual mix generates a powerful drive; the need to prove oneself, coupled with the capability to resist immediate temptations, often leads to significant sacrifices for future success.

Reading this study resonated with me, as I have long felt a profound purpose and skillset aimed at making a positive impact. Yet, the very traits that propel professional achievements can also hinder personal happiness and mental well-being.

Section 2.1: The Draw of Entitlement

Success can lead to unwanted attention from those who feel entitled to your achievements. I recently received several awards, and old acquaintances reached out, seemingly wanting to reconnect. However, their intentions quickly became clear—they were more interested in what they could gain from me.

Good opportunities can lead to distractions. People will request your time, invite you to events, or seek your insights. While some connections may be beneficial, many will be takers, feeling as if you've robbed them of success.

Section 2.2: The Cost of Balance

To truly excel, you often have to abandon the notion of balance. Obsession is typically the only route to greatness. Most athletes devote countless hours to their craft, often neglecting other aspects of life.

I find myself working seven days a week, driven by an insatiable need to create. This commitment comes with drawbacks, such as burnout and a scarcity of time for personal relationships. Yet, I embrace this phase of my life, unburdened by obligations and free to pursue my passions relentlessly.

In the end, you cannot expect to achieve greatness while maintaining equilibrium. Find what you love and pour yourself into it, knowing that it may consume you.

Conclusion

If you're content with mediocrity, that's perfectly acceptable. Not everyone is meant to push for success. But if you aspire to join the elite ranks, it's vital to be aware of the challenges that accompany this journey.

“Find what you love and let it kill you. For all things will kill you, both slowly and fastly. But it’s much better to be killed by a lover.” — Charles Bukowski

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