Rethinking Success: Embracing the Unconventional Path
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Chapter 1: The Burden of Rules
Throughout our formative years, we are inundated with an array of regulations, many of which echo sentiments like "avoid this" or "stay away from that." Occasionally, we encounter the directive to "put in hard work," suggesting that only through diligence will we find success. The underlying message is clear.
However, many of us cling to these guidelines far beyond their usefulness, much like the childhood practice of tying mittens to our winter coats.
Brian Wong, a technology entrepreneur, addresses this issue in his recent publication, The Cheat Code: Going Off Script to Get More, Go Faster, and Shortcut Your Way to Success, released by Crown Business. He seeks to challenge the notion that adhering strictly to rules is the key to advancing in one's career.
Section 1.1: The Power of Announcement
Cheat 7—though the book is not divided into traditional chapters—is dubbed "Don't Ask-Announce." This principle is a twist on the well-known adage of "don’t seek permission; ask for forgiveness," which seems to be a common struggle among many millennials, based on my observations.
The true brilliance lies not just in the cheat's title, but in Wong’s insightful commentary that clarifies his intention. To spoil the surprise: Cheat 7 does not involve springing a flawed yet grand scheme on others.
Subsection 1.1.1: Embracing the Role of a Follower
Cheat 17, known as "Be a Follower," might be challenging for those in a job market where recruiters often seek proven leaders. Nevertheless, Wong makes a valid point: "When you accept your position within the hierarchy, people generally appreciate you."
Not every insight in the book revolves around discarding time-honored practices; some critiques focus on emerging, nonsensical trends. For instance, Cheat 39 is titled "Drop Out Of Dropping Out."
"It's the affliction of my generation. We didn't create the trend of quitting, but we certainly perfected it."
I’ll take his word on the mastery involved. However, I can attest that, with one notable exception, everyone I know who abandoned their degree failed to achieve significant success. Simply put: if you struggle to maintain focus in the structured setting of college, how will you navigate the unpredictable terrain of entrepreneurship? Leaving a degree unfinished may also signal to potential collaborators that you lack perseverance when challenges arise.
This concise read offers a fresh perspective and may provoke reevaluation of some long-standing yet counterproductive habits.
Chapter 2: The Importance of Completion
The first video, "Carrie Underwood - Before He Cheats (Official Video)," explores themes of betrayal and revenge, illustrating the emotional turmoil that can arise in relationships.
Section 2.1: Learning from Experience
The second video, "4 Months into the Pokemon TCG - the Highs, the Lows & the Learnings!!," reflects on the ups and downs of engaging with the Pokemon Trading Card Game, emphasizing the lessons learned throughout the journey.