Chapter 1: The Nature of Supply

In the realm of narcissism, all potential sources of supply are considered valuable.

Despite the severe betrayals that often accompany narcissistic behavior, it's crucial to recognize that these new sources do not hold greater significance than you. A narcissist may prioritize a new supply over the current one, but this new source simply adds to their collection of utilities rather than replacing you entirely. The validation received from any partner is fleeting; narcissists are perpetually in pursuit of new forms of affirmation.

As they engage with their partner, resentment typically arises. This stems from the partner's inability to consistently uplift the narcissist's self-worth. The reasons for this are twofold:

1. Unrealistic Expectations: The partner often fails to meet the narcissist's inflated ideals.
2. Familiarity Breeds Contempt: As the narcissist becomes accustomed to their partner's affection, that validation diminishes in value. The partner's initial infatuation fades, revealing the narcissist's flaws and shortcomings.

This shift leads to a painful realization for the narcissist; they feel rejected as the partner's perception evolves from idealization to a more realistic understanding of their character. Consequently, when partners provide love in its entirety, the narcissist may interpret it as a lack of validation, exacerbating their feelings of inadequacy.

Narcissists rely heavily on external sources for self-esteem regulation and often assign blame to their partners for any discomfort they experience. They forge connections with those who can fulfill their need for validation and gratification, driven by the innate characteristics of their disorder.

The narcissist may be oblivious to their need for supply or the genuine reasons behind their discontent with their partner. They might rationalize these feelings with narratives that position their partners as unloving or flawed.

As a result, the partner enters a phase of devaluation, while the narcissist keeps an array of potential supply sources readily accessible, both in their contacts and online. The reality is that a narcissist is perpetually surrounded by prospective sources of validation, ready to step in as soon as their partner falters. Once a new source is added, the existing partner automatically becomes a "next" supply.

When a partner shows signs of malfunctioning, the narcissist is quick to revert to their list of supply sources, leaving no distinction between past and future; the supply is simply always there.

Video Description: This video explains the fundamental principles of supply and demand in a concise 8-minute format, providing a foundational understanding of these economic concepts.

Chapter 2: The Cycle of Supply and Devaluation

Video Description: This video delves deeper into the concepts of demand and supply, offering a comprehensive look at macro and microeconomic perspectives, enhancing your understanding of how these forces interact.