The Importance of Sharing: Lessons from a Fig Tree
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Chapter 1: The Fig Tree's Bounty
In the garden of a friend lies a fig tree, a source of both abundance and lessons. Every May, she decorates its branches with old CDs and DVDs, which she carefully saved over time. This shiny adornment acts as a deterrent for birds and squirrels, ensuring that the fruit remains untouched until harvest time in July. The figs, plump and subtly sweet, begin to fill their home.
As the tree yields more figs than my friend and her husband can consume, the fruit starts to accumulate in their refrigerator. Despite her intentions to make preserves, the demands of life—meetings, chores, and children's activities—overwhelm her. Eventually, the figs are hastily bagged and handed out to friends and family, who often feel obligated to accept but may not be enthusiastic about the fruit.
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Section 1.1: The Dilemma of Abundance
Even though the figs are plentiful, they often end up in the trash. My friend, frustrated by the situation, laments about the waste. I suggest she leave some fruit for the local wildlife. “You could remove the CDs once you’ve had your share,” I propose.
“Birds and squirrels are nuisances,” she counters, “they nibble and leave behind half-eaten fruit.”
“True, they’re not tidy eaters,” I reply. “But isn’t it better for them to enjoy some of the fruit instead of letting it rot?”
My friend appears conflicted. “Why grow fruit if it’s not for us to enjoy?” she asks.
I respond, “The essence of growing is also about sharing. The land belongs to all creatures, not just us.”
She looks at me, unsure if she’s convinced, but I realize that not every conversation leads to agreement. Sometimes, the best we can do is plant a seed of thought.
A beautiful wedding at Georgian Hills Vineyards that showcases the importance of nurturing and sharing life’s gifts.
Section 1.2: The Nature of Generosity
As the conversation continues, I reflect on the potential for connection with nature and the importance of sharing what we have. The idea that we are part of a larger ecosystem is crucial; our actions can have lasting impacts beyond our immediate needs.
Chapter 2: Lessons in Patience and Understanding
In life, we often wait for the results of our efforts. The idea that “the day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit” resonates deeply. It’s a reminder that patience is essential, and that growth takes time.
This video emphasizes the value of patience and understanding in the journey of growth and sharing.
Thank you for taking the time to read this!
Special thanks to Jane Frost (Jane Grows Garden Rooms) for sharing my story.